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Saturday, January 31, 2009
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Deb DeMarinis Lodico
First grandchild
The first grandchild?
I remember Nicky was big buddies with the guy who lived across the street from Grandma. His name was Lou Marinelli. I remember being over playing with Lou's son Joey, and becoming aware by via Joey that the man talking to his dad was my cousin. It was really unsettling. He would stop by to see Grandma now and then.
What's it all about? ALFIE
Friday, January 30, 2009
The Great Chase
Given Grandma's age, sometimes she would call in reinforcements to discipline me. Mostly, that job fell to Uncle Blackie (although I think every one of my Aunts and Uncles had a crack at it).
Once he came over already in a bad mood that was further aggravated at having had to be called into disciplinary service for his mom. He was so mad I ran from him. I ran out the back door into the yard with him in hot pursuit. I shot between the bushes and into the neighbors yard (aka the "American") and he followed through the bushes, but he came out scratched up shirt torn and even madder.
I ran into the house and as he was about to grab me when I scooted under the dining room table (the table in the room we never used). The table had a trundle that I got over and out the other side.
He followed me under the table but got stuck on said trundle. Well, now he was REALLY mad. Just picture the scene for a moment.
Then he freed himself and came out spitting fire. I was kind of frozen by the situation and stood to face the inevitable. Grandma stepped between us realizing my pending doom and said, "No Blackie, leave him (me) alone."
Well, he was possibly as surprised as I was, but still breathing hard and mad. He sat down in the kitchen and I was sent to my room. After a bit I was summoned and got a mean talking to and he asked that I never do anything to make her call him again.
I did my best from that day forward, and really believe that was the final time he was called in. I still have that table downstairs in storage just because of this memory.
The Apartment
Remember Uncle Nick had the big house down on Wick Oval that was split into many apartments for YSU students. I spent many Saturdays with him down there working around that house with him, largely to get me out from Grandma while Mom was at work. I leaned alot about how to fix things with him and did my best to help, although, most of what I did seemed to do just the opposite.
I remember once trying to haul out a nasty old rug getting the dry heaves from the smell and ulitmately creating another mess to clean up. We would come home and he would tell grandma and my mom about the day and there was a good bit of laughter about it. It could have been a sit-com. That poor guy.
The Pets
I Remember Two Dogs
Pizzelles
Classic Pizzelles
3 eggs
¾ cups sugar
½ cup margarine, melted
4 Tablespoons anise extract
1 ¾ cups of flour2 teaspoons baking powder
2 Tablespoons anise or fennel seeds, optional
Preheat pizzelle iron. Cream together eggs and sugar, then add melted margarine that has been cooled and anise extract. Add flour and baking powder and mix until smooth. Add anise seeds and mix well. If batter is too thick add water a tablespoon at a time until it is the desired consistency. Using a teaspoon, drop one spoonful of batter on iron for each cookie. Makes about 3 dozen cookies.
Hint: My mom says to put the batter in a Ziploc bag and snip off one small corner (like a pastry bag) and squeeze out a teaspoon-sized dollop on the iron for each cookie. It gives you better control and is MUCH less sticky.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Toilet Repair
One of the last times I went to visit my dad he asked me to fix the toilet. He said “Tell you what; I’ll make some spaghetti while you replace the seal on the toilet tank”. Nothing is more appetizing than placing your hands in a 30 year old toilet and then eating a hearty meal. I said “Dad please, just call a plumber, please oh please? Those bolts are 30 years old!” Dad countered with “Oh come on you sissy, fix the toilet.” I went downstairs and got his socket set. I distinctly remember the ½ inch socket being cracked. I said, “Dad I can’t fix the toilet because the ½" socket is cracked.” To which Dad replied “Jesus Keee-ripes, when did you break the socket?” I replied “Dad, I haven’t lived here in like 9 years.”
Dad had the perfect solution, “get a hose clamp, tighten it around the cracked socket and it will be fine.” Well the clamp failed, the socket slipped and I cut my thumb in the toilet. There was blood all over the place; it looked like a horror film. I quickly wrapped my hand in a towel and ran up to my Dad. “Dad, I have to go to the hospital, I just cut my hand really bad.”
My father replied with “I went to all this trouble to cook you dinner and you’re leaving? Go to the cellar and get some dressing for the salad.” As I walked down the steps, I remember thinking “how am I going to wash the toilet germs off with one hand and eat?” As I looked the bottle of dressing I thought “Oh hell, it doesn’t matter, I’m going to bleed out before I even finish dinner.” I then checked the expiration date on the bottle of dressing which is something I highly recommend when eating anything at your parent’s house. The dressing expired a year prior…my stomach started to tighten. I walked upstairs and said “Dad, this salad dressing is a collector’s item, and we can’t eat it or we’ll die.” Dad opened the bottle, didn’t even sniff the contents. Not even a whiff. With no hesitation, he took a big slug of the salad dressing like he was drinking a Coke. “It is fine, you sissy.”
As I sat eating dinner, I thought “what are the odds of not getting an infection or food poisoning or bleeding to death.”
Well I finished dinner and went to the emergency room at the hospital. The doctor asked “This injury looks several hours old. Why did you wait so long to come in?” I said “If I tell you what happened, will you pump my stomach?”
Morris
Spooked on Halloween
Addition to the Turkey Story
I also wanted to add that I would spend a week at Grandma's in the summer when I was in grade school (my summer vacation) and I cannot tell you how many times I climbed that Bing cherry tree that Dominic mentioned for those delicious cherries. My mother tells me that when I was little, I loved fruit as did Grandpa and even when my mother thought I had had enough, Grandpa would sneak me fruit. Great memories.
Best Breakfast Memories
See the stove was crowded, guests were over etc., so she would crack a couple eggs on top of the slowly simmering sauce, right into the grease on top of the pot, and cover the pot for a minute or two, then scoop out the eggs and a hunk of sausage onto a piece of bread, maybe even a couple of green beans or "coogotz" (zucchini,) depending on what was "around."
WOW, was that good!
Pop in the Wine Cellar
The other fruit cellar was larger and had been the wine cellar in days gone by. The parts of those vintages were still in that room.
Before Christmas every year, Uncle Morris would show up with a Coke truck and unload cases (like 25 of them) of pop and would stack them in the aforementioned fruit cellar. It was always very cool in there, thus the logic was they would be cold and ready to drink whenever needed (for the soon to come holiday gatherings).
I think the other thought was by putting the soda and mixers in there, they would be safe from a certain young boy.
They were wrong...
Italian Women are Tough
An elderly Italian man was dying in his bed. While suffering the agonies of impending death, he suddenly smelled the aroma of his favorite ravioli wafting up the stairs.
He gathered his remaining strength, and lifted himself from the bed. Gripping the railing with both hands, he crawled downstairs.
When he reached the bottom of the stairs, he leaned against the door frame, gazing into the kitchen, where if not for his death’s agony, he would have thought himself already in heaven, for there, spread out upon waxed paper on the kitchen table were hundreds of his favorite ravioli.
Was it heaven? Or was it one final act of love from his wife of sixty years, seeing to it that he left this world a happy man.
He threw himself toward the table, landing on his knees in a crumpled posture. His perched lips parted, the wondrous taste of the ravioli was already in his mouth.
With a trembling hand he reached up to the edge of the table, when suddenly he was smacked with a wooden spoon by his wife... "Back-off," she said, "those are for the Funeral…."
Joseph V. Warino
Sonny's Post
Joyce Warino-Palombaro
Four Joe Warino's
One Great Turkey Story!
As told by Joe Warino, Sr. (Uncle Joe)
Connie Warino
Morris Michael
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
How To Create a Screen Name and Log Into Blog Sites
Dominic asked me to post how I created an account, I tried to make it as easy to understand as I could and hope I did not miss any steps! Good Luck, it is a bit tricky if you do not have gmail or an already created google account!
1. Go to http://www.blogger.com/i.g?inviteID=835475738625473302&blogID=8504291977204026433 (this is the original link in the e-mail Dominic sent inviting you to join the blog).
2. You will come to a page that says in black letters at the top: DOMINIC ROMEO HAS INVITED YOU TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE BLOG Warino Family BlogSite.
3. If you do not have a Google account: you need to click on the blue underlined words that say “ Create your account now.”
a. You will then be prompted to “Create a Google account” all you really need to do is type in your e-mail address, verify your e-mail address, create a screen name (this is the name that will appear when you write) and pick a password. (this is what you will use when you log into the blog, it is not going to change your actual password for email, so don’t be worried!).
b. You will then have to verify by retyping letters that they give you in green in the verification box, this is to prevent fraud. You also then need to checkmark the box “I agree with the terms of service” to proceed. Then click “Continue”.
4. Once a google account is created, you can then log in using the link in #1 (the link in Dominic’s invite). Your username is your e-mail and your password is the password you selected when you created a google account. Then click “accept invitation” and you are in!
5. If anyone wants me to do it for them, I don’t mind at all. Just shoot me an e-mail at allybaro@aol.com. Hope this helps!
Viscots, my 2 cents
Italian Game of "Morra"
Morra is a hand game that goes back thousands of years to ancient Roman times and is still popular in Italy today. In the Bible, it may have been referred to as "casting lots." In ancient Rome, it was called micatio, and playing it was referred to as "micare digitis"; literally, "to flash with fingers." As time passed, the name became Morra. The game was so common that in ancient Rome that there was a proverb used to describe an honest person: "Dignus est quicum in tenebris mices," which means, "He is a worthy man with whom you could play micatio in the dark."
There are two styles of play. Northern Italians play sitting while Southern Italian players stand and use their whole body and extend their arms to flash their fingers. The purpose of the game is to sharpen the mind while enjoying the company of friends. In the most popular version, players throw out a single hand, each showing zero to five fingers, and call out loud their guess at what the sum of all fingers shown will be. If one player guesses the sum, that player earns one point.
In another version one person is designated the "evens" player while the other is labeled "odds". Players hold one hand out in front and count together to three (sometimes chanting "Once, twice, thrice, SHOOT!" or "One, two, three, SHOOT!") On three, both players hold out either one or two fingers. If the sum of fingers shown by both players is an even number, then the "evens" player wins; otherwise the "odds" player is the winner. Since there are two possible ways to add up to three, both players have an equal chance of winning.
Apparently some variations of Morra involve money. The winner earns a number of dollars equal to the sum of fingers displayed. This might explain why some of the Uncles looked happy and others not so much!
Love this Blog!
Allyson Palombaro (Morris and Connie's grand-daughter)
Connie remembers...
Joyce
MODAY...
Joyce Warino-Palombaro
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Viscots
When it comes to viscots, nobody does them better than Aunt Rose. I have had the pleasure of growing up on Aunt Rose's Viscots!!! As was stated, the greatest treat during every Christmas and Easter Holiday, in my humble opinion was having one of Aunt Rose's Viscots. And if you don’t remember, Sunday mornings, Grandpa Warino breaking the pretzel shaped cookie into small pieces and placing them in his coffee, only to savor with each sip, than your not a Warino!!! No other cookie on this earth has left such a memory etched on my brain. Aunt Rose made some viscots special for our Lindsey’s wedding in 2007. The caterer, not knowing what to do with them , put them in a basket in the bar area. They were gone in minutes!!!! Now I’m hungry for one, or two!!!
Joseph V. WarinoTripe
As he was sitting down to eat some, Blackie came in to visit. He said, "Aahh, mushrooms" and Grandpa said, "Have some." So Blackie sat down and was served some. Not being told what it actually was (Note: this was not uncommon on Truesdale!)
He took a big chewy bite and said, "What the hell kinda mushrooms are these?" and Grandpa laughed and laughed at him. Grandpa teased him about the tripe from then on ....
Aunt Rose
Recipe for Viscots
Viscots
Mix and set aside:
2 pkgs rapid rise yeast
2 tsp sugar
1 & 1/2 c warm water
In large kettle mix:
6-7 cups flour ( not evenly measured)
1 tsp salt
4 TBSP fennel ( approx)
2 sticks melted margarine
4 large eggs
yeast mixture
Put large kettle of water on to boil. Knead mixture and let sit for a while ( approx 15 min) and knead again until soft dough ( might help if put oil on your hands.) Roll piece of dough into log and shape into pretzel ( approx size of palm of hand.) Let viscots sit on kitchen towel to raise approx 15 -20 min (usually make about 12-15 at a time.) Place 3-4 viscots at a time into boiling water until they rise to the top. Drain on kitchen towels. Bake at 350 on ungreased baking sheet approx 25 min until golden brown. Delicious warm, cold, soft or hard. Store in zip log bags to keep soft. Makes at least 4-5 dozen.
Misplaced Shoes
Grandpa usually had to walk to Center Street to work. One morning he was ready to go to work and Grandma had been rushing around to make his lunch etc., and he was running late. He couldn't find his shoes.
So he was going aroung the house looking....
"Sam na bitch" "Sam na bitch" "Where are my damn shoes!!!"
Grandma got frustrated with him and said, "What! How am I supposed to know what you did with them or where they are?"
Then they both looked down and realized she was wearing them....
Aunt Rose
You know your from Ohio:
You know your from Ohio when it’s 10 degrees outside, there are winter storm warnings plastered all over the TV and radio, (calling for 5-8 inches of snow) and you take the family out for a ride in the car just to see how really bad it is. Tonight just may be one of those nights!!!
Joseph V. Warino
THE Chicken Story
He wanted to make a good impression so so he stopped to pick up a gift to take for the visit, I believe she (Fanny) was living with her brother Jim (see earlier posting; "think sour"). Rather than flowers or chocolates, James, ever pragmatic, picked up a live chicken to take to his date.
Of course to add complexity, James had no car. So he rode the bus. Picture him in his suit, with a hat on, holding a live chicken around its neck.
So he got on the bus and found a seat. It was apparently crowded on the bus and there were not many seats available. So he sat down next to a well-dressed woman, whom it seems was less than happy at his seat selection and choice of "gift." The chicken it seemed was stressed by the journey and the grip James had on its neck. At some point during the bus-ride the chicken pooped, right on the woman's leg.
Well she was not happy. James apologized over and over (scuze, scuze) to her and used his hanky to wipe off the poop, which made matters worse it seemed. Finally, he was asked to leave the bus and did so. Now he walked to his destination with his bird.
Arriving late, he came into the house and Grandma, noted a very strong smell. Being poor it had not occurred to James to get rid of the hanky. So there stood James, introduced to Fanny, hot and sweaty from the walk, with a half dead chicken in hand and smelling like chicken-shit. What a catch...
She used to laugh and say, "there was something about him..."
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Another Chicken Story
Chicken Parts II
In the summer I would routinely be rooting around the freezer for a popsicle and end up pulling out a skinned rabbit always frozen in mid-leap. And my mom wondered why I never believed her when she told me "it's chicken".
That said, I am a big fan of rabbit now, but haven't run across any buckshot since I ate it on Truesdale.
Chicken Parts
Happy Birthday Aunt Rose. You look great!!
Viscots
The Stove
It had a 6 burners and a warmer on top, two ovens and a broiler that steak houses would envy. It was really very nice. One of "the boys" bought it used to replace the stove that was down there. The downstairs stove was where the canning was done in the summer, lard was rendered, and where should would bake bread (as she made like 50 loaves and a few pizzas per "batch;" all the ovens, upstairs and down, were busy).
The thing is, this stove was really big, how big you all failed to realize until it was in the driveway. There was no way this mammoth cooker was going down the basement steps.
So over a weekend in combination, Morris, Nick, Blackie, Joe, Pete and I think I remember Gary in the mix as well, deconstructed the basement stairs lowered the behemoth down into the basement, installed it (and new freezer) and rebuilt the stairs (re-using the same wood!)
I can't adequately put into words what I witnessed that weekend. The highlight being Nick, Blackie and Pete working side by side in that cramped basement. Priceless!
That's the weekend I learned how to swear....
Viscots~~~That's Them!!!!!
Thanks for the memories,
Joyce
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Smaller Batch of "Viscots"
Taralli Baresi
1 teaspoon dry yeast (½ package)
½ cup warm water
2 eggs
1 teaspoon sugar
1 teaspoon salt
3 tablespoons margarine, melted and cooled
3 ½ cups flour
½ teaspoon black pepper, ground
½ teaspoon anise extract
1-2 Tablespoons anise or fennel seeds
Preheat oven to 425o. Melt margarine and let cool. Put yeast and water in a cup and set aside to bubble. Cream together eggs, sugar, salt and cooled margarine. Add in remaining ingredients and mix, then add yeast mixture and mix again. Place on floured surface and knead well. Set aside 10-20 minutes. Roll into thin logs and form into pretzel shapes. Drop in boiling water. When they rise to the surface, drain on clean towel to cool and dry briefly (a few minutes.) Place on a greased cookie sheet and bake for 20-25 minutes, until golden brown.
Fanny's "Viscots"
After doing some research, I found that these cookies are also known as “Taralli Baresi” and can be purchased pre-made from several companies on the internet. Marias' Taralli Inc. in Brooklyn seems to have the largest following. The cookies came to the U.S. with immigrants from the Puglia Region of Italy where Fanny grew up. Taralli Baresi is a cross between a pretzel, and a bagel. It's an unsweetened cookie, savory biscuit. They are to be enjoyed with a glass of wine, coffee or by itself!
Friday, January 23, 2009
Speaking of Cookies
I love the picture of Aunt Rose on her birthday. God bless you and you look wonderful! Dominic the slide show is great!!!!! I think my mom has some pictures, I will find them and then I will have one of my kid's scan or do whatever you do.......
Joe, I love the story about the FOXES. Your dad came over to visit us and told us the story. We were crying!!!
Hope everyone is doing well! This is great!!! Once again Dom, thanks for all your work. Oh Dom, I just saw Jean Cohen today. Do you remember her? Jean and your mom worked at Sparkle together. She was talking all about your mom and we did have some good laughs.
Joyce Warino-Palombaro
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Coffee and Cookies
Grandma had some lady friends to the house. I think the group included Minnie Williams (her first husbands sister whom we always needed to show our best for). It was, as Grandma hoped , to be, a "nice visit", read you behave and make me proud. They even used saucers! However she asked, it sunk in and I was as good a little boy as I had ever been (I really was :-) ).
Coffee and cookies, lots of chatting and I was quite in the front room. Somehow a cup feel to the floor and broke. Hearing it I exclaimed "aht ta fav oot" , this was the Italian term I heard Grandma say a 1000 times when something went wrong. Clearly the true translation had escaped me...
I looked up to see four very stern looks from four very Italian women. Grandma grabbed me and was about to spank me, until it became apparent to her that I had no idea what the word/phrase meant. She blushed and all of her friends laughed and yelled "AHT TA FAV OOT".
It could mean anything, I dont really know. But be careful who you say it in front of.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Porcase Safari
I went to visit Aunt Rose with Grandma. The two of them got to talking/cooking and I found my way to Mary Phyllis's room. She had a bazillion stuffed animals.
So I set them up in order of a march across the floor. The lions led the march, followed by the mighty elephants, there where many of those....
Then, in order of size or ferocity the march was arranged. I spent hours (it seemed) arranging the animals just so. Then when my masterpiece was nearly complete in the doorway was Mary Phyllis.
WOW, was she mad! You see the animals all HAD just the right spot before I began my safari with them .
Stingray Preparation
What do you want for Christmas?
So I told her with all the control I could muster over my exuberance " I Want a Stingray". She smiled and laughed (as always) and said that's so much money.
Time ticked away and Christmas Eve came. The dining room was packed and with all of the other seafood Grandma proudly placed a plate in front of me and said "Buone Natale." I didn't recognize the dish and asked "Grandma what is this" she beamed at me and said, "its Stingray Domini".
God I miss her.
Note: She always left the "c" off my name when she said it ....
Watch Out for the Foxes!
During Dom's recent visit to Youngstown , an old memory was rekindled..... Many years ago, Dom stayed overnight at our house and Brother Gary and I decided to introduce Dom to my mom's Fox wrap. ( picture this, two real foxes connected together head to tail with feet dangling ) that was used in the day, as a scarf / accessory... As Dom was heading off to sleep, Gary held the fox wrap in such a manner making it appear as though it was peering around the corner of the bedroom door scaring the S%#$*# out of young Dom....... During Dom's recent visit, the Foxes made another appearance, as I edged them around the corner of the bedroom doorway.... the reaction by Dom was golden!!!!! Watch out for the foxes!
Joe Warino, Jr.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Happy Birthday, Aunt Rose!
Love, Aunt Rose and JoAnn
Monday, January 19, 2009
Sunday Mornings
DeMarinis Family
My father is going to enjoy reading this so much. The other son of Ang and Louie was my Uncle Don, whose real first name was actually Anthony. Both he and my Uncle Paul have since passed away.
My father tells many stories of the Warinos and their care and compassion after such a tragic accident. Whoever posted that about being presented as cousins could not be more correct. Family is born of love not always by blood.
Keep up the great work and I will try to dig out some pictures and some of my grandmother Ang's great recipes -minus a soup bowl of flour- LOL!
Jenette DeMarinis Garbarz
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Your slow learner computer cousin!
Do you remember the round things that grandma would make with fennel seed, and you dip (soak) them in your coffee. I think Grandma made them around Easter time. What where they called and does anyone have the recipe?
Again Dom, thank you so much for all your hard work!! This is great!!
Joyce W. Palombaro
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Relatives
Grandpa was married once before Grandma. He and his wife had a daughter named Philomena. His wife (name unknown to me) died giving birth to a baby girl. She was raised by the wife's parents. She eventually married and gave birth to a son, John. During birth she died. John was raised outside of the Warino family, but with close ties. Essentially, John Mashiska and I (likely you too) shared the same Grandfather, James Warino.
The Demarinis story goes like this: Ang and Louie Demarinis were very good friends of Grandma and Grandpa. They had three sons, Paul, Lou. and Don. Ang and Louie were in a terrible automobile accident and were essentially bedbound for some months following the accident. Grandma and Grandpa moved them into their home and took care of them and their children until they were able to care for themselves. Bear in mind this was during a difficult time and the Warino house was already pretty full.
Both of these families were always presented to me as cousins by Grandma. They are as real a family member as any I have as a result.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Grandma's Bread Recipe
2 cakes of yeast
water
That's it, good luck!
Note: I remember the soup bowls, but I don't have any idea how much flour that one translates to. Seems like it was enough to reserve for flouring the work surface as she rolled out the dough.